鈥淭hat鈥檚 so gay鈥 originated as a pejorative phrase in the late 1970s, with the word 鈥済ay鈥 implying stupidity or unpleasantness. According to junior Noah Murase, who identifies as part of the LGBTQ+ community, while students may attempt to divorce the phrase鈥檚 meaning from its origins, it still reinforces the harmful stereotypes against LGBTQ+ students.
鈥淭his word, specifically, has not evolved,鈥 he said. 鈥(When it is used,) we know that you want to associate 鈥榞ay鈥 with femininity.鈥
According to Gender-Sexuality Alliance President senior Chania Rene-Corail, expressions like these also stigmatize the LGBTQ+ community.
鈥淪aying the phrase, 鈥楾hat鈥檚 so gay,鈥 can make members of the (LGBTQ+) community feel ashamed of being queer, and it makes (Gunn) much more of a hostile environment,鈥 she said.
These words also make students who are discovering their identity feel ashamed of themselves and afraid to openly join the LGBTQ+ community.
鈥淲hen you are a young person trying to come out and you see that people around you aren鈥檛 that supportive of it, that makes you not want to come out of the closet,鈥 Rene-Corail said. 鈥淵ou just stay stuck in that situation where you can鈥檛 openly be who you are.鈥
Rene-Corail said this phenomenon affected her personally in middle school.
鈥淧eople at my old middle school used the word 鈥榞ay鈥 a lot, which made it hard for me to come out,鈥 she said.
Students who use these phrases also prevent the formation of meaningful relationships, alienating potential friends.
鈥淚鈥檝e had a lot of people in my life who were like, 鈥極h, that鈥檚 a red flag about (him),鈥 and I should be on alert,鈥 Murase said.
According to Murase, the phrase also reflects badly upon the user, making them seem childish for attempting to represent something 鈥済irly鈥 or silly as 鈥済ay.鈥
鈥淚f you want to say something is stupid, don鈥檛 relate it to sexuality,鈥 Murase said.
According to Rene-Corail, many students are simply ignorant of the phrase鈥檚 connotations. Thus, raising awareness is the first step in changing the conventional image of the LGBTQ+ community.
鈥淎 lot of the time, it鈥檚 used to not actively be mean, but as an ignorant statement,鈥 Rene-Corail said. 鈥淲hat I鈥檝e gotten from listening (to others鈥 experiences) is that it鈥檚 not about people being mean, it鈥檚 about not knowing of the negative effect on others and not knowing that it might make others feel embarrassed.鈥